So the MIL has arranged for the female members of the family to attend ladies day at Royal Ascot. Having never been before I feel a bit nervous and explained this to MIL. She arranged a dress rehearsal for fathers day yesterday. My sister in law cooked sunday lunch for her father so we all gathered around her house. Her husband (John's brother) is very similiar to John. Although she was not really a tomboy but her husband insists on skirts and dresses, although I don't know if she gets spanked.
MIL has, unknown to me bought me a dress. She came round before we went to lunch so I could change. I really don't like the dress. Perhaps because she bought it. John said I should just wear it and not be ungrateful. The hat is faux feather and the shoes are cream court platform shoes. I really didn't want tights but she insisted I wear nude stockings. Arrgh. John just agrees but I complained and she told John.
After the father's day meal when we had returned home John spanked me for being rude to this mother and said I should be more respectful and as well as obeying him also "behave" his word with his mother. Easier said than done. Her last words were she had bought me some lovely underwear from woods online. Can't wait. Whoever gave her the internet. More soon.
Monday 18 June 2012
Monday 9 April 2012
Being moulded
When we first started dating John often said I should be moulded into his perfect partner (or wife now).
It first started when he changed my clothes, banning jeans and trousers and insisting I wear skirts, dress and no bare legs. The clothing them continued, out went my trainers and in came ballet pumps and heels. I grew my hair longer and took a bit more care of my nails. I shaved down there.
Then there is the sexual side. I am still learning to please him sexual but can still be crabby about certain things. I understand his time is sometimes limited and he wants to just relieve himself quickly and then go, leaving me a little frustrated but I supposed I am pleased that I have pleased him.
I do go along with his wishes, I want to please him and if I am honest I enjoy having less responsilbilty but I am more accountable to him now.
So we were talking about all this over the weekend and he said I have not let go of my past. He sees glimmers in me of me being childish. When he first mentioned this I argued the point but he actually wants me to more child like. He hates me seeing rude stuff on TV and magazines and has cenesored it. He wants me to be worry free of lifes troubles but if I do mess up in the house by breaking rules then that warrants a spanking.
I am kept very busy running the house and have even started to grow my own vegetables. I do all this when he is at work and wonder how I did half of the stuff when I worked. When hes home he wants me to "me", ie be the grily, child like housewife he has moulded. Does that sound strange. Other examples, he chooses for me when we eat out and only he talks to the waiter. He tells me when to go to bed and often at weekends chooses what I will wear and how I should have my hair (he has got a thing for me wearing a ponytail or bunches right now).
Just wondering if this dynamic or parts of it occur in any other relationship. I am not complaining, I am head of heels in love with John!
It first started when he changed my clothes, banning jeans and trousers and insisting I wear skirts, dress and no bare legs. The clothing them continued, out went my trainers and in came ballet pumps and heels. I grew my hair longer and took a bit more care of my nails. I shaved down there.
Then there is the sexual side. I am still learning to please him sexual but can still be crabby about certain things. I understand his time is sometimes limited and he wants to just relieve himself quickly and then go, leaving me a little frustrated but I supposed I am pleased that I have pleased him.
I do go along with his wishes, I want to please him and if I am honest I enjoy having less responsilbilty but I am more accountable to him now.
So we were talking about all this over the weekend and he said I have not let go of my past. He sees glimmers in me of me being childish. When he first mentioned this I argued the point but he actually wants me to more child like. He hates me seeing rude stuff on TV and magazines and has cenesored it. He wants me to be worry free of lifes troubles but if I do mess up in the house by breaking rules then that warrants a spanking.
I am kept very busy running the house and have even started to grow my own vegetables. I do all this when he is at work and wonder how I did half of the stuff when I worked. When hes home he wants me to "me", ie be the grily, child like housewife he has moulded. Does that sound strange. Other examples, he chooses for me when we eat out and only he talks to the waiter. He tells me when to go to bed and often at weekends chooses what I will wear and how I should have my hair (he has got a thing for me wearing a ponytail or bunches right now).
Just wondering if this dynamic or parts of it occur in any other relationship. I am not complaining, I am head of heels in love with John!
Friday 16 March 2012
Un-necessary spanking
The other day after tea I went for a shower and then came down stairs in my night dress gown. John was just finishing some work on his laptop and mentioned that a work colleague might drop in to pick something up as he wouldn't see him tomorrow.
I didn't really think much of it and got engrossed in a film. About half an hour later the door bell rang and John told me to go upstairs as I wasn't "dressed" right to be introduced. I was annoyned as I didn't really want to be introduced anyway and I was in the middle of watching a film. I snapped back and said don't show him in here. "Go up stairs now, you keeping him waiting" I still refused and he switched the TV off said "Now and I will deal with you when he has gone". I knew that was a spanking. I stormed up stairs and went waited and waited. They talked for ages until at last I heard the door go. I went downstairs only to find John outside and this man waiting in the lounge. "Hello, he said, I'm Julian". I froze and managed a quick hello when John walked back in. I could see he was rather annoyed now and he gave a quick into before Julian went.
I went back upstairs shortly followed by John. I explained I thought he had gone but he was annoyed I had disobeyed him by coming down stairs. He pulled the bedroom chair out and I didn't argue, I took my dressing gown off and lay over his lap. He lifted my nightie and started spanking straight away. He spanked for ages well past my tears and crying. When he stopped he asked me stand up and kiss him which I did. He then took my nightie off and told me to have corner time for half an hour. Corner time dragged on but he told when my time was up and put me to bed. I hate going to be early. When he came to be much later he did make love to me but kind of brought me close to him again, it was a stange mix of feelings.
By the morning I thought my punishment would be over but he instructed me to wear my punishment dress. Oh I hate this dress he makes me wear. A dress bought by his mother but its a reminder of my bad behaviour I guess.
I didn't really think I deserved a spanking for simply going downstairs by accident but he said he asked me three times to go upstairs and I refused and I acted immature. I guess he is the boss.
I didn't really think much of it and got engrossed in a film. About half an hour later the door bell rang and John told me to go upstairs as I wasn't "dressed" right to be introduced. I was annoyned as I didn't really want to be introduced anyway and I was in the middle of watching a film. I snapped back and said don't show him in here. "Go up stairs now, you keeping him waiting" I still refused and he switched the TV off said "Now and I will deal with you when he has gone". I knew that was a spanking. I stormed up stairs and went waited and waited. They talked for ages until at last I heard the door go. I went downstairs only to find John outside and this man waiting in the lounge. "Hello, he said, I'm Julian". I froze and managed a quick hello when John walked back in. I could see he was rather annoyed now and he gave a quick into before Julian went.
I went back upstairs shortly followed by John. I explained I thought he had gone but he was annoyed I had disobeyed him by coming down stairs. He pulled the bedroom chair out and I didn't argue, I took my dressing gown off and lay over his lap. He lifted my nightie and started spanking straight away. He spanked for ages well past my tears and crying. When he stopped he asked me stand up and kiss him which I did. He then took my nightie off and told me to have corner time for half an hour. Corner time dragged on but he told when my time was up and put me to bed. I hate going to be early. When he came to be much later he did make love to me but kind of brought me close to him again, it was a stange mix of feelings.
By the morning I thought my punishment would be over but he instructed me to wear my punishment dress. Oh I hate this dress he makes me wear. A dress bought by his mother but its a reminder of my bad behaviour I guess.
I didn't really think I deserved a spanking for simply going downstairs by accident but he said he asked me three times to go upstairs and I refused and I acted immature. I guess he is the boss.
Sunday 12 February 2012
Religious or not?
Twice a week I attend an afternoon "church" class with my mother in law. I didn't want to go at first but John made me and it actually is not too bad. I have not been particular religious but I like the warmth it can give you and it does feel nice to belong to something.
MIL is very religious and is pleased I now attend and is somehow converting me. She said she even makes John attend and he has been a few times at the weekend, probably to please her now doubt. He attends a mens only class though.
We rotate between 3 peoples houses. It is a house church, and is led by a small group of Christians all of whom are very nice and have welcomed me into the group, although I had to keep a small white lie from them, that being I was a virgin on my wedding night. Not that they asked any questions, they sort of just assumed.
Each week there is a guest speaker who reads from the bible and we then discuss what has been read. As the afternoon class is women (and sometimes joined after school by some of their daughters) the subjects mainly relate to the wife in the marriage and church and some of the topics are quite interesting . There are handouts to take back and discuss with your hubby.
Anyway I thought I would extract a few that relate to my marriage:
"Peter says that a husband is to honor or show special regard to his wife because she is the weaker vessel and she is a co-heir of God's saving grace."
I discussed this with John who agreed of course I was weaker but in a nice sense and that I needed guiding just like a ship. I beleive I can manage without the full leadership of John but he says the wife's role is to follow her husband not decide for herself.
And of course this one I knew before:
"A woman shall not wear anything that pertains to a man, nor shall a man put on a woman's garment, for all who do so are an abomination to the Lord your God." Deuteronomy 22:5"
This is Johns reason for banning trousers of any type although he has never given me a real explanation about why bare legs are unacceptable?
I discussed some of the things with John but he does not talk about it much. I tried to ask him how anal sex is allowed in christian marriage but he stopped me and said he does not want me to talk about sexual matters as this is matter for him. That night when he came to bed he went straight for the lube, lubed my bottom up and proceded with anal sex. He likes anal sex but I am not that bothered, well I would rather not actually. The next morning he made me wear a butt plug so I think this was sort of punishment for asking him about anal sex.
So after many church meetings I really am none the wiser about some of John's ways. So many things are still a mystery to me.
MIL is very religious and is pleased I now attend and is somehow converting me. She said she even makes John attend and he has been a few times at the weekend, probably to please her now doubt. He attends a mens only class though.
We rotate between 3 peoples houses. It is a house church, and is led by a small group of Christians all of whom are very nice and have welcomed me into the group, although I had to keep a small white lie from them, that being I was a virgin on my wedding night. Not that they asked any questions, they sort of just assumed.
Each week there is a guest speaker who reads from the bible and we then discuss what has been read. As the afternoon class is women (and sometimes joined after school by some of their daughters) the subjects mainly relate to the wife in the marriage and church and some of the topics are quite interesting . There are handouts to take back and discuss with your hubby.
Anyway I thought I would extract a few that relate to my marriage:
"Peter says that a husband is to honor or show special regard to his wife because she is the weaker vessel and she is a co-heir of God's saving grace."
I discussed this with John who agreed of course I was weaker but in a nice sense and that I needed guiding just like a ship. I beleive I can manage without the full leadership of John but he says the wife's role is to follow her husband not decide for herself.
And of course this one I knew before:
"A woman shall not wear anything that pertains to a man, nor shall a man put on a woman's garment, for all who do so are an abomination to the Lord your God." Deuteronomy 22:5"
This is Johns reason for banning trousers of any type although he has never given me a real explanation about why bare legs are unacceptable?
I discussed some of the things with John but he does not talk about it much. I tried to ask him how anal sex is allowed in christian marriage but he stopped me and said he does not want me to talk about sexual matters as this is matter for him. That night when he came to bed he went straight for the lube, lubed my bottom up and proceded with anal sex. He likes anal sex but I am not that bothered, well I would rather not actually. The next morning he made me wear a butt plug so I think this was sort of punishment for asking him about anal sex.
So after many church meetings I really am none the wiser about some of John's ways. So many things are still a mystery to me.
Friday 3 February 2012
Long time
Sorry I have not been blogging recently, I hope everyone who reads this is well.
After Christmas was over John in a nice way had said I had gained a little weight and I had answer him back a few times over, what else clothes. Christmas was a good excuse for him to buy me more skirts and dresses and his mother also chipped in with some clothes as well. John is the sort of man that would rather spend his money dressing me up than go to a football match, strange really. We had a little argument about in on new days when he had arranged to go for a walk with his family. I asked if I could borrow a pair of my old jeans I knew he had kept back but he said no. I was the only one in a skirt and I felt uncomfortable.
He was annoyed as well and said I was moaner and being bratty and how could womens clothes be something I could not enjoy? When we got home he took my upstairs and pulled me over his knee. He lowered my skirt, tights and panties and spanked me for my behaviour. I was angry but gave in and accepted my punishment. He then told me to dress for bed and there I was, the first day of the new year and in bed for 7.30pm
When he got into bed about midnight I half expected him to make love to me but I think he had drunk some wine and fell asleep. He did in the morning which was nice.
We had a chat the next day and he said I had been acting like a naughty school girl for some time and I will be treated like one. For the next two weeks it was early bed times and no answering back. I had to wear what ever he said and twice a week he arranged for his mother to come in and I would spend the day with her. That is punishment itself. He bought some new clothes and of course insisted no bare legs so its been tights and stockings, something I still dislike.
Things are okay now and he is chilled out a bit. Perhaps it was all the Christmas stress...
Love Kate
After Christmas was over John in a nice way had said I had gained a little weight and I had answer him back a few times over, what else clothes. Christmas was a good excuse for him to buy me more skirts and dresses and his mother also chipped in with some clothes as well. John is the sort of man that would rather spend his money dressing me up than go to a football match, strange really. We had a little argument about in on new days when he had arranged to go for a walk with his family. I asked if I could borrow a pair of my old jeans I knew he had kept back but he said no. I was the only one in a skirt and I felt uncomfortable.
He was annoyed as well and said I was moaner and being bratty and how could womens clothes be something I could not enjoy? When we got home he took my upstairs and pulled me over his knee. He lowered my skirt, tights and panties and spanked me for my behaviour. I was angry but gave in and accepted my punishment. He then told me to dress for bed and there I was, the first day of the new year and in bed for 7.30pm
When he got into bed about midnight I half expected him to make love to me but I think he had drunk some wine and fell asleep. He did in the morning which was nice.
We had a chat the next day and he said I had been acting like a naughty school girl for some time and I will be treated like one. For the next two weeks it was early bed times and no answering back. I had to wear what ever he said and twice a week he arranged for his mother to come in and I would spend the day with her. That is punishment itself. He bought some new clothes and of course insisted no bare legs so its been tights and stockings, something I still dislike.
Things are okay now and he is chilled out a bit. Perhaps it was all the Christmas stress...
Love Kate
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